When the Phrased “TO BE STABBED” comes unto someone mind, the major respond is when a sharp object maybe it be a knife, cutlass or a dagger been sank deep into the person flesh causing heavy bleeding and perharps death. Tho this isn’t the case but the similarity of all of the definition we all know is death. Why is it death? It end something, it terminate something, it seizes to exist and this is not only applicable to life. Trust can be killed, friendship can end, homes can be destroyed, marriages also can end. Technically speaking the end of things meant death. You can be alive and dead. You can dress so well, smell really nice, have alot of money stacked up in our various account but yet, DEAD. let’s go into details and am sure everyone of us have been STABBED at a point in our life, we were once a living dead. We actually became zombies

It’s a very normal thing in our lives to get disappointed, to argue or to have a misunderstanding about something. It’s very normal. Infact, misunderstanding and arguments are the major ingredients to the development of any form of association may it be family, romantic friendship, casual colleagues at work or even our church members. At a time, we will not be on the same boat of understanding which is normal but what isn’t normal is when someone who makes you feel you can trust them, confide in them, understand them, rely on them or should I say someone that can carry you to cloud 9 can stare at your face smiling and holding your hands making you feel you have their support and love only to stab you, only for you to realize you were trusting someone that isn’t true to you or using you. Deam, it can be hurtful.

Stab Means deciet, lie, pretends, carrying someone into a state of Vulnerability and dripping them at their lose moment. Funny enough everyone of us have kinda prepared ourselves to be ready for this kind of issue tho what makes it very painful is when it comes from those did not expect it from. I technically can heal from any disappointment because I have seen it in full 3D display so am almost already used to it but Good Heavens knows I can die if it comes from someone you trust and they still look at you dead in the eye, now that kind of stab can kill you. That can of Stab can make you a living dead, that kind of stab can turn you into a zombie of no purpose in earth.

Many of us are still living a life of insecurity and fear because truth be told, you are a zombie. Yes you heard me, a zombie. You have been filled with a negative mindset that even if you genuinely like someone, that mindset will make you bite them without them doing nothing to you. I was at that stage, many did that to me and I wondered, what was the cure?? What can transform this?? FORGIVENESS AND MOVING ON. to be continued